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Post by rat on Mar 30, 2007 0:19:10 GMT -6
just received a message from a friend of mine that the doctor sent her home and called hospice.. ! she is 39 with a 6 year old son.. ! she said that if that was what God has in store for her.. but the pain of leaving them behind.. ! her son knows she is sick but doesn't understand the other.. ! her mother doesn't know and how does she tell her..? this has got to be unbelievable pain and loss..?
one question that always came up when I was taking Chemo was why me.. ? had a priest answer me one time with why not you..? do you think your different.. or what..?
one thing you learn around people going thru this is that things become clear.. ! heaven and earth come into clear focus .. ! you get an attitude of what is important.. ! people no longer bother me.. ! things and people that would drive me up the wall no longer get my attention.. you don't have time for that BS.. ?
When you go to bed tonight .. kiss the one you love.. ! and say a prayer for a friend of mine who's family is in pain.. !
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Post by Isabo on Mar 30, 2007 7:27:22 GMT -6
It's a sad situation rat. I'll keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by sugarbaby on Mar 30, 2007 11:27:29 GMT -6
Rat, I'll keep them in my prayers as well.
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Post by humbug on Apr 3, 2007 21:35:32 GMT -6
I will put her and her family at the top of my prayer list. And you to rat. It's very sad.
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Post by rat on Apr 4, 2007 0:01:43 GMT -6
well so far I am fine.. ! just fat and old.. bad attitude.. ( thats what my wife says ) ..?
but they have found some doctor who is going to try something new to try to see if they can stop the spreading.. ! think they meet with them tomorrow.. ! not sure.. !
she has a lot of fight but is very weak.. !
and it doesn't discriminate.. was listening to John Edwards wife... and she was talking about living long enough to see he kids grown.. ! its just amazing how people with all the money in the world .. but are praying to live long enough to see her kids grown.. ? like I said .. things come into clear focus..
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Post by rat on Apr 11, 2007 1:23:33 GMT -6
There are thing in life I will never understand..? thats why I always said I would keep a list and put it in my coat pocket so when I stood before the great white throne.. I could ask him a few questions about why.. ?
She pass away this afternoon.. !
Say a little prayer for the family tomorrow.. ! and hold your love one's just a little tighter.. !
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Post by muzikphreak on Apr 11, 2007 15:02:05 GMT -6
Rat: I'm really sorry to hear that. I've lost close ones, friends and family, to this. I know that you knowing that doesn't make it any better, but I will say a prayer for you. And I'll hold my children closer.
- Phreak
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